Stop sexualising beauty
The disgusting behaviour of most young people
Every day after college, I come back home on a public bus. It’s my usual commute, but on 5th Feb 2026, something unusual happened.
At one stop, a group of students, probably in 10th–12th grade, playfully entered the bus, sat in front of me, and had a fun conversation. The bus started moving.
Suddenly, one boy from the group looked at the back window and said, “Is that our P.T. sister?” The rest of the group stood up, looked behind, and agreed with him. And their conversation became filthy.
About having good taste.
About their female classmates.
About whom they were flirting with.
One boy even used abusive words to make fun of another boy’s relationship with girls. I couldn’t listen to them. It was disgusting.
I was looking outside, contemplating why they behaved like this. And I came up with a theory (similar to the Hypodermic Needle Theory):
They learned these behaviours from the media: movies, series, reels.
Nowadays, you can see that most youth-focused content uses profanity, dark humour, sexualising women, and whatnot. That’s what goes viral. That’s what youngsters (like those boys) consume every day. And that’s what injects filth into the next generation.
Objectification is so normal that even a professor can make fun of someone by doing it in front of the class, without any guilt [based on true incidents].
Why does this happen?
It's a global propaganda.
The more the youth are drawn toward lust, the weaker they can become in many aspects of life. Easier to control. Easier to commoditise.
Of course, take Epstein as an example. He controlled powerful people through this one human behaviour: lust. He commoditised their cravings and made profit out of their privacy. And he trafficked kids, because the younger the age, the easier it is to manipulate.
Since childhood, we have been constantly being taught to sexualise beauty. Subconsciously.
It’s a long cultural process behind those boys who talked filthily about their female classmates and their P.T. sister. Yes, they literally used the word “sister.”
Such behaviours are so normal in our society that none of the passengers on the bus condemned them, including me. And I feel very guilty since then.
Imagine that P.T. sister is your sister. Imagine your daughter is one of their female classmates. And what if your son or your brother is one of those boys? It’s very painful and disturbing to even imagine, right?
The harsh truth is: it can happen.
Yes, even many girls have this behaviour. That's why the title is not: “Stop sexualising women: The disgusting behaviour of most young men.”
So the bottom line is:
It’s each and every one of our responsibilities to reduce such behaviours in our society.
Not by condemning those boys online. Not by protesting in front of the school. But by taking care of what is in our hands.
We need to be aware. We need to change our own filthy behaviours. We need to raise our kids by teaching them respect and modesty.
You can’t stop evil people from placing traps, but you can stop yourself from falling into them.
Stop sexualising beauty.
Stop normalising objectification.